Pet loss

Losing a pet can hurt as much as losing anyone we love. There's no right way to grieve them, and no deadline for it.

If you're looking for words

Many people want to say something to their pet and don't know how to begin. What to say when your pet dies has a few gentle ways in.

If you want to understand the Rainbow Bridge

You may have seen someone write that their pet "crossed the Rainbow Bridge." What the Rainbow Bridge means explains where the idea comes from and why it comforts so many people.

If you want somewhere to go

Beloved Hollow is a quiet place online where you can leave a few words and a little treat for them, and light their window for the night. Cross the bridge whenever you'd like.

If you need to talk to someone

• Several veterinary schools run pet loss support lines staffed by trained volunteers, such as Cornell University's Pet Loss Support Hotline. Hours and availability change, so check their page first.
• If grief ever becomes more than you can carry, or you're thinking about harming yourself, please reach out now. In the US, call or text 988. Elsewhere, contact your local emergency number.